Chapter 5
PSYCHOLOGY OF ORGAN LOSS
Losing an eye can be devastating, both emotionally and physically. Whether the surgery to remove an eye was done on an emergency basis or pre-planned and performed on an elective basis, no one is ever prepared to lose an eye. A process of grieving is necessary to lead to the eventual acceptance of losing a part of the body. However, the extremes of avoiding grief altogether and/or excessive preoccupation with the loss can also create significant psychological disturbances.
As with any significant loss, such as the loss of a loved one (e.g., the death of a family member or friend), patients who have an eye removed often go through five predictable stages of grieving: denial, anger, bargaining, grief, and acceptance. Not everyone passes through these in order, but eventually the goal is for all grieving persons to reach acceptance. Eye doctors may only observe their patients as they experience the initial denial phase and seem to be handling life with only one eye very well. Patients may be reluctant to express feelings of anger to their doctor, whether the anger is directed towards the person who may have caused the injury or even at the doctor for not being able to “save the eye”. The bargaining phase occurs as people may try to negotiate with their “Supreme Being” (e.g., God) to restore sight in the lost eye, or help create an eye transplant which would restore sight, in exchange for promising to better control their blood sugar from diabetes, for example. The grief stage is where people begin to realize that their life is forever changed, and may experience deep sadness and anguish. This stage can often mimic or lead to depression. Patients should be closely monitored to watch for signs of suicidal or even homicidal thoughts. Referral to a mental health professional is imperative in these cases.
Most people experience two types of grief following the loss of an eye: loss of body image and loss of function. Loss of body image refers to the emotions that someone experiences in reaction to the way others perceive them.